Everyone wants to live a happy life. But sometimes we aren’t able to live so. We all know that tension and over stresses will destroy our health, then why don’t we choose a happy life. A happy life is not a life given by somebody it is what we have to find and live.
There are some reasons which prevent us from leading a happy life. It is our ego, arrogance, anger, tensions etc. We all have one life live a happy life.
I found a definition for happiness in a site “Happiness is when your life full fills your needs.”I don’t agree that even if our needs are not full filled we can be happy. Happiness is a choice some choose it some who are always melancholic and curse their life rejects it.
It is said that once during a stage program conducted by Charlie Chaplin he said a comedy;everyone laugh for the comedy. Then Chaplin repeated the same comedy half of the audience reacted, then he repeated the comedy nobody reacted for it instead of laughing they start to make comments. Then Chaplin asked to the audience why don’t they laugh for the comedy they answered ” Who is going to laugh for the same comedy again and again “.Then Chaplin said with a smile, ” You will not laugh for the same comedy again and again then why do you cry thinking about the failure or loss in life? “
Past is past don’t curse or blame it. Success in your hand. Hope for a good future. Only we can change our lives. Live the life you love.
Most of us are disturbed and complain that “I am alone”” I don’t have anyone to share my problems” Don’t say that you are not alone, at least think that you have yourself. Believe in yourself. No one can change your life;sometimes their maybe people in your life who said that you are not going to be a successful person, you are a looser, you are an utter nonsense/ failure. No, it is not they made you, it is the pain in your life help you to being yourself.Listen to your heart when no one talks to you.
Happiness comes when you feel satisfied and fulfilled. Happiness is a feeling of contentment, that life is just as it should be. Perfect happiness enlightenment, comes when you have all of your needs satisfied.The fundamental reason why happiness is so important is that it’s extremely vital to our own goals in life and can help us achieve many other cherished personal ambitions and goals. When happiness is on board, this not only affects you but it has positive effects on all those with whom you come into contact.
Let me help you to lead a happy life with a few advices.
- Give complements- ‘There is an equal and opposite reaction for every action’.When you complement others you will also get a blessing from your good words. It is from my own experience. If you have any doubt just try it. It will bring change in your life.
- Smile- In this complicated world of tensions people forget to smile. Try to and smile, the positive energy it gives is not describable.
- Self respect- If you don’t respect yourself nobody else is going to do so. You should respect yourself even if you have any defects.Everybody has weaknesses we should never underestimate ourselves.
- Forget your enmity- “Your face is the mirror of your heart ” So, your enmity will clearly visible to others it will destroy your beauty. You can’t be happy with an enmity attitude in your heart.
- Do goodness- You don’t have to pay much money to do goodness, do a little goodness which gives joy to your heart.
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